yeah uh like. honestly with my magic bullshit backstory I grew up looking a lot more androgynous than I would have otherwise & given the choice now I would have chosen to be a ordinary human and deal with gender shit mundanely & been a more normal kinda screwed up but
I mean I'm not complaining that a lot of strangers don't know how 2 read me and they tend to go about 50/50 either way when they make the call
yeah like zero pressure to use lables u don't like or want, that's kinda the whole point. but if u wanted to do some research online "nonbinary" & "genderqueer" would prob be useful keywords
it's a serious upside though, even if you'd rather be cattle. just an upside on top of an upside if you ask me, just with a downside in the middle there
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wow uh
dude I'm trying really hard to remind myself there's no way you know what ur talking about especially bc I started w/ the "well at least magic transition happened" talk first but buddy
probly u should avoid suggesting to changelings that our durance was worth it
like i could be running around crying about being unable to eat kebab and about having a shadow because my sire kind of botched that embrace of something but instead i could also like the fact that i won't grow old and ugly and am a lot less fragile now
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I mean I'm not complaining that a lot of strangers don't know how 2 read me and they tend to go about 50/50 either way when they make the call
yeah like zero pressure to use lables u don't like or want, that's kinda the whole point. but if u wanted to do some research online "nonbinary" & "genderqueer" would prob be useful keywords
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i'll look into it, ty
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wow uh
dude I'm trying really hard to remind myself there's no way you know what ur talking about especially bc I started w/ the "well at least magic transition happened" talk first but buddy
probly u should avoid suggesting to changelings that our durance was worth it
u know
in the future
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i mean even shit that sucks
typically has an upside
like i could be running around crying about being unable to eat kebab and about having a shadow because my sire kind of botched that embrace of something but instead i could also like the fact that i won't grow old and ugly and am a lot less fragile now
why're you folks so negative?
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it does not balance out to a net positive
I really don't want to go into any more depth about the other place than I already have can we please not talk about it
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I mean I guess we tend to just run into the wrong person or right person or something and don't get abducted to a whole different plane of existence
anyway
why'd you end up at that bar? and are you planning on going again?
a friend of mine would like to meet you